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Extinguishing the Fear of Hell

The other week, I received an excellent suggestion from a Daylight Atheism commenter via e-mail. He suggested I write a post on the following topic: How can a former believer overcome the vestigial fear of Hell?

I suspect this is a common problem. Many religions go to great effort to inculcate in their followers an instinctive terror of breaking the rules, and this irrational fear can often linger and continue to traumatize a person even after they have consciously and rationally decided that those religious beliefs are false. No blame attaches for this; it's just an intrinsic part of human psychology. Cold fear, unfortunately, is often a more powerful force than dispassionate reasoning.

In The God Delusion, Richard Dawkins quotes one victim of this psychological abuse who wrote to him seeking help:

I went to a Catholic school from the age of five, and was indoctrinated by nuns who wielded straps, sticks and canes. During my teens I read Darwin, and what he said about evolution made such a lot of sense to the logical part of my mind. However, I've gone through life suffering much conflict and a deep down fear of hell fire which gets triggered quite frequently. I've had some psychotherapy which has enabled me to work through some of my earlier problems but can't seem to overcome this deep fear.

Dr. Dawkins suggested a therapist, Jill Mytton, who herself escaped a cult called the Exclusive Brethren and now counsels people in similar situations. Yet even she still bears the traces of her former indoctrination:

"If I think back to my childhood, it's one dominated by fear. And it was the fear of disapproval while in the present, but also of eternal damnation. And for a child, images of hell-fire and gnashing of teeth are actually very real. They are not metaphorical at all." I then asked her to spell out what she had actually been told about hell, as a child, and her eventual reply was as moving as her expressive face during the long hesitation before she answered: "It's strange, isn't it? After all this time it still has the power to... affect me... when you... when you ask me that question. Hell is a fearful place. It's complete rejection by God. It's complete judgement, there is real fire, there is real torment, real torture, and it goes on for ever so there is no respite from it."

Reading about the horrible suffering that so many believers experience, anyone with a conscience would want to help. I'm well aware that there's no quick fix for a psychological trauma like this, and not having had a cult upbringing to break away from, I don't claim to be an expert on this. But I do have two suggestions, so I'll give them out in the hopes that they may do some good. Anyone who has more experience than me and can improve on them is invited to do so.

First: Most religious groups, for understandable reasons, try to instill into their followers the belief that their particular teachings are the only ones that are real or worth caring about. To counteract this, I suggest it may help to put those teachings into their proper context in the pantheon of world mythology. What I'd recommend for a struggling ex-believer is to read about all the afterlives that have been proposed - Greek, Egyptian, Buddhist, Hindu, and everything else that's out there. Once you can compare them side by side and are used to seeing them just as stories, it will be easier to do the same with the religion you were brought up in.

Second: The best way to conquer the phobia of Hell, as with any other phobia, is to induce extinction. Expose yourself to whatever idea or image triggers the fear - in small doses at first - and prove to yourself that no harmful consequences follow. Repeat this often enough, and the mental link between the stimulus and the fear is eventually broken. Of course, rationally speaking, this wouldn't disprove a punishment that's claimed to only arrive after death - but because we're dealing with an irrational fear and not a reasoned belief, I think it may be effective.

So, readers, what do you say? Can anyone improve on these suggestions?

October 1, 2008, 9:25 am • Posted in: The GardenCommentOptions

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In my case at least, I would amend that to learning about all the afterlives that have been proposed and why they have been proposed. The more glaringly obvious become the sales techniques a con artist is using on you, the less effect they have.

I sometimes catch myself thinking "what if i'm wrong?" briefly before logic takes hold and I reassure myself that i'm not. The blogosphere spends alot of time picking apart the crazy cultists, the fundamentalists and extremists. But what about the average people who aren't loons? The people like my family and friends are casual Christians, church on holidays and a prayer at meals, sometimes. They believe in evolution and that dinosaurs roamed the earth hundreds of millions of years ago, yet they still believe in God, Jesus, Satan and Hell.

I think people like this aren't necessarily crazy or stupid, they are able to see some of the illogic and hypocrisy in religion, but eternal damnation is a pretty tough pill to swallow if they're wrong, so it's a much safer bet to have faith in God. I think without that fear religion would fall to pieces, I think it's the primary motivating factor in the vast majority of believers.

For me, the fear of hell kept me from trying to question my beliefs. I knew opening the door of uncertainity could lead me to spent eternity being tortured.

But that was a big relevation in itself. I knew that I was looking for proof of God. So why would he torture me for eternity if I could not find him? I realized that if God existed and if he set up hell, then he is the torturer. After all, God could just remove me from existance instead of sending me to hell. So I was able to envisision a more loving God than protrayed by the Bible.

So I knew that God was not loving, or the rules of hell were wrong/did not exist. I decided that if God really was a being that would want to torture anyone for all of eternity, then he was evil. And I could not bring myself to worship an evil deity. I figured that if God were real, then the only real possession I may have is my own integrity. I guess I would rather suffer in hell with my integrity intact than to know I sold out to worship someone who wanted such a hell to exist.

So the concept of hell actually pushed me to question Christianity to the point where I stopped believing in it all together.

Wow Quath, I like your post. Why can't more people approach these issues with the same reasoning. It's so simple and clear.

BTW, I was originally going to post this comic, it's quite funny.

Boy, can I identify with this one!

Ebon's suggestions are, I think, good. I think I follow Quath more, though. One of the main reasons I dropped out of Christianity was that for years I had struggled with the notion of Hell. I did my level best to justify it. I taught it with a fervor that became increasingly over-the-top as the absurdity of it dawned brighter and brighter. No matter from what angle I approached it I couldn't justify it. The evidence and arguments against the Faith are staggeringly strong. Even if at some level we "just know," it remains that these arguments and evidence are plenty good enough to at least throw the whole matter into question; to suppose what we "just know" could be a misapprehension and not a reliable reflection of reality. And if it can be legitimately questioned, there is simply no way to continue insisting that it would be just to consign people to an eternity of swimming in a lake of fire because they can't buy it.

Here's some good news for the new unbeliever: the fear goes away in time. It really does.

Hmmm, I guess posting images is not allowed. Here's the link.

I think the point you make about studying other versions of the afterlife is a very good one. It crosses my mind that back when I was about 11, I started to get very interested in Greek, Roman, Egyptian and Norse mythology. I read just about everything I could on the subjects, and now I'm wondering if that's part of why I ended up rejecting my Methodist upbringing and arriving at the atheist space I now occupy.

I was terrified of hell, but just as long as I believed in it. After I shed Christianity, I became terrified of death, probably because I had never been terrified of the unavoidability of death as a child.

Once again, I invoke my mother as an example (sorry)

She takes great delight in listening to those who have "been to Hell." She goes on about how awful it is and the details of the torture and the wretched, writhing demons that are there and the fire and all the sulphurous conditions that people report. Once, when I was over, I had to sit through this hour-long dramatization on TBN about one man's experience of dying and going to Hell and coming back followed by the usual repentance and changed life.
Here's the kicker. The stories from these different people DON'T MATCH UP! Another guy who went to hell 30 years ago had very different details about the place (did they remodel?!?). But, she doesn't seem to notice this. It's SO frustrating!

I probably said this before, but this is the same woman who tells me that Zombie/Vampire/Horror movies are demonic and the fact that I enjoy them (occasionally) shows something is wrong with me.

I'm lucky, I don't fear Hell...except for a split second when I make obscene religious jokes.

Studying other mythologies' versions of the afterlife is an excellent idea.
I'd add that you could read "liberal" xian ideas of Hell. Some are watered-down and not all that scary. More like a lame party where no one interesting shows up and it's all awkward pauses in the conversations. The notion that Hell isn't permanent is also common. There is ample Biblical support for the notion that there is no Hell, if you cherry pick your scriptures correctly.

Sure, you don't believe it. But, some part of you still does, in a sense. Maybe if you can convince that part that Hell isn't that bad, anyway, you might get some relief.

I'm surprised this is a problem. I myself have no such fear of hell left over from my deconversion. Of course what this basically says is that deconverting is not always the exact same story. On top of that, the "fear hell" aspect was never emphasized when I was swept up in all that nonsense. I didn't have the catholic description of "the horrors of hell" spouted at me as a kid (and to be honest only really got into the nonsense as a teenager anyway). At any rate though, I was into the dogma as much as anyone else when I was a christian, but when I deconverted (a process that took months of studying the world around me as well as my own faith, basically I was convinced that if I was going to have a real faith, I had to have the courage to examine it, and that led me to becoming an atheist).

For those who do suffer a leftover fear, I can only say this is a trauma beyond mere faith, clearly as you aren't part of the faith any more but the fear's still there. This is the sort of thing I'd call child abuse. I can only say that like any phobia, a rational explanation of why there's nothing to fear isn't going to help. Only exposure, or in this case since hell doesn't exist, some simulation of exposure, can help.

I remember being a child of 9 or 10 years old, sitting in the pew of my family's Southern Baptist church, and becoming consciously fearful of the fact that I was going to hell. I felt this way because I was never (and never have been) baptized. I thought it was a ridiculous ceremony that meant nothing except grandstanding in front of others. I had "church friends" who I watched go up to the front of the sanctuary and get baptized and I knew that baptism was a joke because these kids were so full of shit, it was hilarious. It's amazing what kids will do when they want to get on their parents' good side. My best friend growing up was a non-Christian, and he was (and still is) such a better person than my Christian friends, I remember thinking that it was a ridiculous thought that he would be doomed to hell. Even though I grew up going to church at least 3 times a week, I was never much into it. I now look back and regret all the football games I missed on those Sunday mornings. What a waste of time.

As well as the afterlives of other religions, don't forget the various other Christian afterlives. The story of limbo illustrates nicely how the theologians just make it up as they go along.

Polly,

She takes great delight in listening to those who have "been to Hell." She goes on about how awful it is and the details of the torture and the wretched, writhing demons that are there and the fire and all the sulphurous conditions that people report. Once, when I was over, I had to sit through this hour-long dramatization on TBN about one man's experience of dying and going to Hell and coming back followed by the usual repentance and changed life.
Here's the kicker. The stories from these different people DON'T MATCH UP! Another guy who went to hell 30 years ago had very different details about the place (did they remodel?!?). But, she doesn't seem to notice this. It's SO frustrating!

I heard those same tales as a kid - and they are never congruent: one guy thinks he's still alive after death, another is pulled straight into the abyss, another floats above her body, etc... Of course, I pretty much ignored those incongruities because a part of me actually *wanted* a hell to exist - as I was rather spiteful twards those like myself(at this point in my life), I could not imagine a more fitting punishment for not conforming to my own worldview.

In retrospect I see that it was just petty and that the idea only exists in the mind, but damn it can a tempting one..

Very good topic. Having been raised a Christian from a very young age and dived into the fundamentalist deep end for a while early on, hell did make a deep and lasting impression. Although I've been an atheist many years (nearly 30) now, its presence in my early thinking can still, in some sense, be felt. When first abandoning a belief in God , my thinking was that if God was real, I should be able to find out before death and make sure I was "saved". An important thing to not forget is that the hell left in my mind is an emotional response and not simply dispelled with rational thinking. The logic of the side by side comparisons (or even an objective review of the history of hell in Christianity) is sufficient to kill the idea at a logical level. Also, as Quath notes, the irreconcilable difference between the idea of an infinitely just, merciful, and compassionate god who is "Love", and hell also defeats that whole doctrine entirely (as has been amply noted on this blog, ebonmusings, and elsewhere). The latter I have been able to subsume into an emotional level (sense of justice and all), but it is, in some sense, in a different compartment than the imprint of hell which still persists. At the same time, rationality overrides the emotional impact of hell in what I accept as reality.

In my experience (perhaps not applicable for everyone), the emotional impact of hell seems to dull through time, as the knowledge of the afore-mentioned problems with hell wear it down. The process is not quick. I view it as a kind of "neural scarring" and is one reason why I agree with Dawkins that immersing young kids in religion is a form of child abuse.

As a Christian I also feel it is an excellent idea to check out other religous teachings on the subject of Hell. This serves as an excellent way to distinguish what the Bible teaches from everything else. (similar to comparisons of the Biblical Creation account to older stories such as the Enuma Elish, or the flood narrative to certain portions of the Epic of Gilgamesh)

I think there is a lot of false teaching about Hell. Certainly I believe it is a terrible place, but I don't view it as a punishment so much as God allowing people to choose. In Genesis God seperates things; light and dark, water and earth, day and night... God seperates a people unto Himself in the Biblical account... the idea of things being seperate is prevelant throughout scripture. How is this relevant?

If God is light and goodness and peace and security and love and all things 'good'... then to be 'seperate' from God would be to dwell in the absence of all of those things. (dark, evil, war, insecurity, etc.) When people reject God, they reject along with Him all the good He's intentioned for their lives. God doesn't punish people with Hell, He allows them to choose it.

I wonder if playing Doom a few times might help.

(That's actually semi-serious).

Wow, thanks, Ebon for this wonderful post and to everyone for your excellent comments.

I can definitely relate to this question. I have been a happy atheist for many years now, but I am still subject to occasional bouts of irrational fear. As others have pointed out, the very idea of an omnimax god who would actually create hell and send people there is preposterous. But here's what I can't quite let go of. What if there IS a god...and he's an asshole? What if he's not only a capricious tyrant but he also finds it fun to hide from us, and then punish us for not believing?

Ridiculous, I know. And has little similarity to any god proposed by any religion ever in existence, except maybe Sarah Palin's. But it's the only one that can't really be logically disproven (well, except maybe the deist's god), and the thought of it does occasionally keep me up at night, I'm sorry to say.

But you know what? Same as with deism, if this is true then so what? It's not like anything I could do would make any difference, so I might as well carry on as though there is no such god or any other. Which is, of course, what I actually believe. So that works out well.

Perhaps think of the very large similarities between Satan and the boogie man. The boogie man is a story told to scare 4 year olds and Satan... well Satan is a story told to scare the 4 year old inside us.

This is something I wrote on another forum but I think it is very applicable here:

I find it very interesting that all fundamentalist descriptions of hell include things about pain on "your body" in the afterlife. So, a person dies and since they didn't believe the right stories their SOUL goes to hell, obviously, because we just put their body in the dirt. Now the description of hell automatically goes into torture, which requires a biological nervous system and hence body to feel.

That is a very big disconnect to fill. Soul to body. Who did it? How does that happen? Reconstituting a body is a miracle worthy of at least mention.

They don't mention it because they are taking advantage of human beings natural cognitive shortcuts. We have no problem conceptualizing someone's theory of mind with which the word soul is used to describe. We also automatically associate a body, complete with pain receptors, to accompany that mind. The automatic intuitions we have are manipulated getting us (well some of us) into believing an otherwise incoherent dogma. They take it for granted that nobody will break it down and analyze it. When it comes to psychology, religion merely makes manipulative claims that certainly work on a superficial level, but is not even coherent when analyzed.

I remember the first time I heard a fundamentalist sermon on Hell. It was a Baptist church and it was the last time I attended church. I mean, I had heard passing comments on it, but this was an entire sermon dedicated to Hell. I remember how I dealt with it at first. I researched it, and I eventually found enough supporting evidence against hell (mistranslations, passages supporting that all will be saved, etc.), and against eternal separation from God that I lost my fear of Hell. The research however sent me toward me thinking about all the other things I was accepting as the truth. I became an atheist and now I love researching topics in the Bible, I enjoy reading it the same way I enjoy the Odyssey.

This has been an issue for me to some degree in the past, but no longer. As has been noted the existence of hell, and the conditions of being sent there, undermine the idea of the all loving god.

As Ebon said "The best way to conquer the phobia of Hell, as with any other phobia, is to induce extinction. Expose yourself to whatever idea or image triggers the fear - in small doses at first - and prove to yourself that no harmful consequences follow. Repeat this often enough, and the mental link between the stimulus and the fear is eventually broken. Of course, rationally speaking, this wouldn't disprove a punishment that's claimed to only arrive after death - but because we're dealing with an irrational fear and not a reasoned belief, I think it may be effective."

The idea that extinction is successful for phobias (and other disorders such as PTSD) certainly has empirical backing. Whether extinction can be successfully applied to "traumatic beliefs" or "phobic beliefs", that are indoctrinated via religion, is an interesting question. I am not aware of any research directly into this question, although it may exist. One line of thought, with some backing, that suggests how to deal with fearful and intrusive thoughts, proposes that a reappraisal or recasting of the thought (or in this case belief) is needed in additions to the reinstatement of the emotional response (in this case fear). The recasting of such a belief or fear of hell may be something along the lines of reminding oneself that there exists no prove for such a place as hell just as there is no prove for FILL IN THE BLANK. The human brain seems to have emotional regulatory systems (as well as memory regulatory systems) that may be crucial in changing the representation of memory in ways that effect the emotionality (or the emotion evoking qualities) of the memory (also possibly affecting the intrusiveness of the thought or memory as well). Hope this helps.

Andrew

karatemack:

Do you have any evidence that your particular description of hell is the "correct" one?

"Heaven for the climate. Hell for the company." Mark Twain

Sometimes I wonder what kind of weird religious upbringing I must have had... or how strange I am in general. There are quite a few things I read on atheist sites regarding religious pasts that I can't relate to, this being yet another. I went to a few different Lutheran churches, but I don't recall any of them going on about Hell at all, nor do I ever recall really fearing it (no more than any other childhood fear, anyway, and probably less).

I have, however, had fearful doubts on extremely rare occasions over the past few years since realizing that I was an atheist. Maybe I'm wrong, there is a god, and he's a dick; just like Nurse Ingrid describes above. I usually just laugh it away: if it's true, there's nothing I can do anyway (aside from worship an evil being... yeah, right), so why worry?

I wish I could help with the problem, but the only thing I could think of was already mentioned by Ebon: reading about other religions.

To Nurse Ingrid:

My intent was not necessarily to "prove" hell exists from a scientific point of view. My aim was only to give, what I feel, is a correct interpretation of the Bible's depiction of Hell.

Because my aim was to clarify what I feel the Bible teaches, my response as to how I came to this conclusion will be full of theological (not scientific) explanations.

Throughout the Bible there is talionic justice. Adam rebels against God and loses the blessing God gave him. Adam was created from dirt and given life, as a result of rebellion against God's law (and therefore rejecting God's blessing as well) Adam will eventually die and return to the dirt. Adam's rejection of God leaves Adam with what's left without God...

Adam was created to cultivate and keep the ground. Because of sin this task was no longer blessed, but now man would toil to do this work.

Eve was created to form a marriage union with Adam, which would ultimately serve as a relational example of God's love for us, but which would also serve as the basis for the family unit and would form the basic structure so vital to society as a whole. Because of sin this union was no longer simply a relationship, but was cursed and reflected the sinful lusts for power. Marriage would now be marked by authority and headship and strife instead of by relational bliss.

I won't address the need for choice, especially as if there is a creator God, it is His decision to make us robots or free will creatures. After all, if all creation was for His good pleasure, He could choose either way and still be 'good'.

What I will address is the need for punishment. Imagine you are in a grocery store. You observe a mother with two children who are not behaving at all. She attempts to control their behavior but they refuse to submit. Not wanting to be 'cruel' she simply leaves them to their disrespectful behavior, ignoring every obnoxious activity they engage in. Is she a good mother? How, then, could a God who is truly 'good' ignore our rejection of Him? If God is good, then He must not only be Love but must also be Just. Do we reject a mother as loving when she punishes her children? No, in fact we regard her as a good mother BECAUSE of her discipline.

But, one could argue, God's punishment is not a 'disciplanary action', it is a final and irreversable judgement. This is true, and seems quite harsh... unless you realize that God isn't FORCING anyone to choose Hell. He is allowing them to choose it for themselves.

What about those who have never heard about Jesus? This is an excellent question. One that I am quite confident God has an answer to. But it is a distraction to the point at hand. I do not need to possess all the knowledge of God in order to determine for myself (and those who ARE within my circle of influence) what is required for salvation. To be clear, I don't know that the Bible is specific about people who are ignorant, but frankly that doesn't matter as everyone I will ever speak with on this matter will not fall into that category. Perhaps that is why there seems to be silence regarding this, as no one reading the Bible falls into this category. Think of how redundant it would be for God to explain to us a condition which does not apply to us and will not have any practical application for us. Would it help us to understand God to know the answer to this? Well, perhaps better asked is if it would make us more comfortable with God. If you cannot trust, from the rest of scripture, that God is loving and just... then would a specific explanation of how God handles this situation help you any better accept Him as such? Are we without other examples of Who God is that this question somehow forms a void which leaves us without a true impression of Who God is at all?

References from the Bible which speak about hell-

2 Thessalonians 1 (entire chapter)

Mark 9:42-49

Each of these verses explain the severity of Hell... but they don't really give us a logical expression of how the punishment fits the crime. Isn't it really unfair that God punishes sinners for ALL eternity for rejecting Him in a span of 80 years or so? Good question. God's punishments should always fit the crime.

If you examine Deuteronomy chapter 28 (again, the entire chapter), you will see a mirror reflective in the text. If you compare the blessing (result of obedience) to the cursing (result of disobedience) you will see that while the cursing is severe, it mirrors the blessing which would have been obtained through obedience.

So, couldn't God simply (again) not curse the womb? Why could the condition not be, obey and I reward you, disobey and nothing happens at all. Here's a theological point. You can either obey or disobey. You do not remain neutral to the commands of God. Therefore you can either have blessing or cursing. There are no neutrals.

Think of it this way. I tell my child to turn on a light. I tell them if they turn on a light they will experience sight. If they obey, surely they will experience sight as the light fills the room. If they choose to disobey, they will surely experience blindness resulting from the dark condition. There is no neutral not-light but not-dark state for them to exist in. There are two possible conditions which have been serperated. I allow them to choose one or the other.

One thing that interests me is when people say something along the lines of "Oh, we've moved on from the eternal pain Hell. It's just separation from God." Thing is, if their conception of God is correct, then Hell is a place without love, without any hope for anything but continual despair and monotony, where there is no comfort save for the worst parts of what is left of your memory, and any good memories serve only to taunt you with the reminder of what might have been*. This, we informed, is God's tender mercy and a sign of Christianity's moral development.

As for the argument that Hell is chosen (rather than sentenced, I can only respond that any choice made while living regarding eternity will be made on such flimsy evidence and understanding that attributing any moral significance to such a choice is absurd.

Back on topic, I agree with the commenters who spoke about the edge of the fear dulling with time, that's certainly true, and extinction probably helps. I tend to think that at least some part of the fear will always remain with me, especially since it's so closely tied to the semi-rational fear of death.

*Probably the best depiction this new Hell is J.K. Rowling's Azkaban.

Sorry for the double post, but I have to address this comment.

Think of it this way. I tell my child to turn on a light. I tell them if they turn on a light they will experience sight. If they obey, surely they will experience sight as the light fills the room. If they choose to disobey, they will surely experience blindness resulting from the dark condition. There is no neutral not-light but not-dark state for them to exist in. There are two possible conditions which have been serperated. I allow them to choose one or the other.

kartemack, your god doesn't just tell us to turn on a light and let us experience the consequences. He tells us to turn on the light and then never lets us touch the switch again, ever. Additionally, He told us to do so when we were too young to understand that we were choosing between being forever in a darkened room or forever in a lit room and too young to understand what light, dark, and eternity are.

God isn't FORCING anyone to choose Hell. He is allowing them to choose it for themselves.

According to the standard interpretation of Christian theology, that is true only in the same sense that a Mafia extortionist "allows" people to "choose" to have their businesses burned down by refusing to pay him protection money.

Here's a thought that helped me in my deconversion: Given the enormous implausibility of the cruel, vindictive, oppressive, capricious god of the Bible (or any "sacred" book, for that matter), it's at least as plausible that the real god--if he/she/it exists--would reward those who reject the god of traditional religions. Mind you, as a religous skeptic I don't think this story is very likely either. My point is that, no matter how unlikely this story is, it's certainly no less likely than the hell of traditional religions.

karatemack,

I won't address the need for choice, especially as if there is a creator God, it is His decision to make us robots or free will creatures. After all, if all creation was for His good pleasure, He could choose either way and still be 'good'.

Might does not make right. Simply because god made us doesn't mean that he has free run to do what he wants with us. In fact, quite the opposite. Because god created us, he has a moral obligation to us.

But, one could argue, God's punishment is not a 'disciplanary action', it is a final and irreversable judgement. This is true, and seems quite harsh... unless you realize that God isn't FORCING anyone to choose Hell. He is allowing them to choose it for themselves.

I'm glad you note that this is true, because it completely undermines your argument and you have done nothing to dispell the objection.

Each of these verses explain the severity of Hell... but they don't really give us a logical expression of how the punishment fits the crime. Isn't it really unfair that God punishes sinners for ALL eternity for rejecting Him in a span of 80 years or so? Good question. God's punishments should always fit the crime.

Yes, punishments for actual crimes (disbelief is not a crime) should fit the actual crime. So, the fact that god's punishment does not fit the severity of the crime tells you what?

So, couldn't God simply (again) not curse the womb? Why could the condition not be, obey and I reward you, disobey and nothing happens at all. Here's a theological point. You can either obey or disobey. You do not remain neutral to the commands of God. Therefore you can either have blessing or cursing. There are no neutrals.

Why is your supposedly omnipotent god so impotent? Once again your "answer" the objection does nothing to dispell the objection.

There is no neutral not-light but not-dark state for them to exist in. There are two possible conditions which have been serperated. I allow them to choose one or the other.

And there's no reason why god has to set up black and white systems where we are either rewarded or tortured for eternity.

OMFG,

And there's no reason why god has to set up black and white systems where we are either rewarded or tortured for eternity.

But it must! Without black-and-white concepts of "morality" for religion to draw upon, the religious authorities lose power and influence over the social order - thus the reason that the "god" of organized religion must arbitrarily establish value and ordain excessive punishment for those who don't adhere to those values.

Fear is needed to keep the ignorant public in line, and what better implement of fear for a religion to wield than an eternal torture chamber? The power of religion would be greatly hampered indeed without this useful tool called Hell...

This whole discussion is interesting. Having grown up in (and still belong to) a mainline denomination, I've never really heard much about hell, and have never considered it a central part of Christian teaching. I read C.S. Lewis' The Great Divorce in college, and Lewis' idea of hell is much like Polly describes above for "liberal" Christians,

More like a lame party where no one interesting shows up and it's all awkward pauses in the conversations.

I wonder to what extent teaching about hell, particularly the fear of hell, is a motivator for people to deconvert.

I wonder to what extent teaching about hell, particularly the fear of hell, is a motivator for people to deconvert.

A pretty significant one, in my case. I was looking for universalist Christian writers when I stumbled upon Robert G. Ingersoll. If I hadn't been motivated to look for answers to the problem of Hell I would never have found Ingersoll, and would probably have remained a believer (of a sort---my religious beliefs were a weird mix of Christianity and deism) for a few more years, might even be one now, it hasn't been that long.

Quite a few of the universalist readings I did find (but can't find now), mentioned that one of the worst parts of the doctrine of Hell is that it drives people away from Christianity, so I imagine it's been a factor for a number of other people, too.

In response to karatemack:

I don't see how Adam "rebelled" against God by breaking his rules. I fail to see how God's black-or-white reward-or-punishment all-or-nothing rules reflect any sort of reasoned compassion for us on God's part. In fact, it sounds like this serventile mindset on our part is exactly the same that children are brought up with in order to listen to their parents' fallible orders.

it is His decision to make us robots or free will creatures

The human mind is filled with sexual desires, nurtured dispositions, bad moods, angry emotions, brain disorders, cognitive biases, plain irrationality, unequal intelligence, unequal maturity, and constrained capacity for concentration. The negative aspects of these features in the human mind have been a cause for detriment to human lives, for sure. So, in what sense do we truly have free will? Will God punish us for the inevitable errors resulting from programmed fallibility?

Do we reject a mother as loving when she punishes her children?

No, but the majority of people will scorn a mother who rejects their child and then brutally, senselessly, inhumanly beats and slaughters the child, for the sake of utterly pointless, vacuous notions of "discipline" and "punishment."

it is a final and irreversable judgement ... He is allowing them to choose it for themselves.

It's not much of a choice: unconditionally submit your will to me or I will hurt you beyond imagining. And how is this a final and irreversable judgement? If people change their minds on Earth about God, I see no reason why they couldn't change their minds elsewhere. In fact (to point to the "distraction," which actually happens to be very significant theology here), it would be more likely for them to change their mind in an afterlife when they are given better information about God, his plan and his desires for people and what he offers, than on Earth where we are forced to trust the words of other humans about God. (Skeptics often invoke the idea of informed consent here.)

You are, in fact, required to possess a minimum amount of knowledge about God before you can be "quite confident" he has answers to questions you are avoiding answering. You cannot reasonably trust something while being left in the dark about it. You say "ignorant" people don't matter in theological discussion because you will never speak to them. By this you are hand-waving a very grave and serious issue about the conception of God and his relation to humans. God does have a responsibility to tell us his condition(s) for salvation very clearly, which has very plainly and obviously not been done in scripture. (Once again: informed consent.)

You do not remain neutral to the commands of God. Therefore you can either have blessing or cursing. There are no neutrals.

False premise, non sequitor, and false dichotomy. I have yet to see an explanation, theological or otherwise, for this presumptuous point. I ask sincerely: why can't God go in between and allow people to happily choose independence from him, without punishment? There is nothing intrinsically wrong about independence. Your light/dark dichotomy is too narrow to hold the true possibilities for God.

Some of these arguments remind of a criticism I heard once of hundamentalist christianity: "[...]religious writings are full of statements that treat God like a small and not overly bright child."

As a Christian I would suggest to these struggling believers to STUDY The Bible, especially in small groups. Study The Bible and realize it is NOT a history book - it is a SPIRITUAL book. In doing so they will discover that we are in Hell already, and yes that means God is in Hell.(Psalm 139:8)

agnohumanist:

Here's a thought that helped me in my deconversion: Given the enormous implausibility of the cruel, vindictive, oppressive, capricious god of the Bible (or any "sacred" book, for that matter), it's at least as plausible that the real god--if he/she/it exists--would reward those who reject the god of traditional religions. Mind you, as a religous skeptic I don't think this story is very likely either. My point is that, no matter how unlikely this story is, it's certainly no less likely than the hell of traditional religions.

Richard Carrier makes a very good argument that Pascal's Wager can support atheism just as well as theism (actually better) based somewhat on that line of thought.

John, any evidence that the conclusions one can draw from the Bible apply to the real world? Without that, it's a moot point.

To respond to all:

I see where your responses are coming from. I have heard and struggled with some of these concepts myself. God cannot both be loving and send people to hell. Things don't have to be black and white. God has a responsibility to take care of us since He made us. Why did God make me this way?

The idea that God is love is true. But to understand what this means, you must define love the way the Bible does. Again, this is where a critical understanding of the Biblical text is necessary before you can criticize a meaning. If I saw my father's new car is cool... you could go over and touch it and say, "No it isn't, it's actually very hot.". You might draw the conclusion that I'm very misguided and should never be considered a reliable reference for temperature gauging. But, your assessment is based upon a false conclusion about what I said. If by 'cool' I meant in-style then I very well may have been correct. The english language changes and has changed over time. The Hebrew language is no exception. Do you know and understand the meaning of the Hebrew (or Greek) words translated "love"? Do you understand them in their original context? If not, then by your own admission you have no true understanding of what the Bible claims when it states God is love. Can God be both loving and just? Yes. But in the true sense of those words.

Are some things black and white? Let's consider this. When we give students exams they either pass or fail. If someone asks me if I have a job the answer is yes or no. If you ask me if I have been faithful to my wife in all our years of marrige, the answer is again yes or no. Sure there are different degrees by which a student can pass or fail... and there are good jobs and bad jobs... my point is that sometimes it is very possible to define things in black and white terms. We do so all the time. If I ever cheat on my wife, from that moment on I can no longer say I have ALWAYS been faithful to my wife. Monogomy in that relationship is forever lost, no matter how guilty I feel later. This is a consequence which is not so much someone "punishing" me as much as it is a direct "RESULT" of my choice to stray.

This is a reply to the argument that HELL cannot exist because...

If you feel that hell cannot exist because black and white's do not exist, then you are wrong. If you feel that hell cannot exist because God is love (or if hell exists then God isn't love), then I would ask you reexamine how you came to the conclusion about the Biblical definition of these terms and why you feel (from a Biblical perspective) they are incompatible. If you think that some consequences are not everlasting results of our actions, then I ask you to explain how virginity can (in a real sense) be regained. How can a lie be untold? How can a murder be uncomitted? Or are you at least willing to admit that sometimes actions do cause irreversable consequences? (the person murdered is not brought back to life because of the murderer's guilt, or because they became enlightened enough to realize murder is wrong... that victim is still dead. The consequence of the action remains despite our human attempts to correct the action.)

In my view, hell is where we're all headed. If not for the Grace of God to save us through our Faith in Him, then we would all surely end up there. Hell is the result of rejection of God... it is not some arbitrary place God designed for people he dislikes.

Nes,

I don't think you had a weird religious upbringing. I was also raised Lutheran, and I never remember much talk of hell either. I certainly was never given the impression that it was a place of eternal torment, at least not a specific enough vision that it ever instilled any fear in me. I was also never told that I was going to hell. Not being part of a 'born-again' religion, I guess it was always assumed that since I had been baptized that I was a Christian, and would remain so, and therefore had nothing to fear from hell. As a child, I remember believing that no one *really* went to hell, except maybe really, really evil people like Hitler, and it wasn't until I was almost a teenager that it was really impressed upon me that hell was a place where non-believers went. My impression of hell was changed around the time that I lost a very close friend who was not religious, and the thought of not being able to see friends and family members who weren't Christians after I died was what traumatized me, and was ultimately my first step towards atheism.

@karetemack

If you feel that hell cannot exist because black and white's do not exist, then you are wrong

Neat. Insist that your preferred definition of "black and white" is the definition of black and white and then pretend that this definition is binding on everyone else.

Yes, it's possible to define "black and white" in terms that support your particular interpretation.

Can God be both loving and just? Yes. But in the true sense of those words.

Do you have anything besides "appeal to inappropriate authority" and "argument from adverse consequences" to privilege one definition of "loving" above all others?

You're firmly in Dungeons and Dragons territory here.

That things will be red around? Well, my room is orange, that's even a warmer colour... That I will be alone? I'm already alone, COMPLETELY, since over a year! I'm alone with my mind (and the Internet, but I mainly use it for things related to my thoughts). That I will cry and jump? Well, that gives you some relief; most self-consciousness, most awareness and "soul" is when there is a stimula, but no easy reaction (then, impulses circulate in your brain's associative centres, without reaching motor centres). - And finally, all ideas which are about "100% suffering" or "100% happiness" are naive: there is no will. Will needs a predecessor and a successor: it goes from suffering to relief. When one of the sides is missing, then there is no will. - Also: life is about what CHANGES. The constant part of a signal is removed, like with C in electric circuits. That's why "final failure" or "final victory" is naivity.

karatemack

But to understand what this means, you must define love the way the Bible does. Again, this is where a critical understanding of the Biblical text is necessary before you can criticize a meaning.

Oh come on! We are talking about a hypothetical omnimax deity here. If HIS word is so ephemeral that it can't stand a a couple of millennia of translation and re-interprettion what is it worth? look, I know what I mean by love and I'm pretty sure most people through the ages did too. The OT god doesn't fit any recognisable definition of the word.

karetemack,

You revise the definition of love itself, based solely on the "authority" of a very clearly unloving god. If a friend told you, "I love children!", but then you let the friend babysit and she/he tortures and kills your child, for "discipline" and "punishment", you have absolutely no choice but to call that person unloving. God's supposed punishment is sadistically disproportionate and uncalled for, and you believe him when he says he's a loving god? In my opinion, that would be disgraceful to the concept of love.

And I think I may also be able to accuse you of bait-and-switching the meaning of "love":

If you cannot trust, from the rest of scripture, that God is loving and just... then would a specific explanation of how God handles this situation help you any better accept Him as such?

Also, you give us another analogy to tell us what "black-and-white" means, but you have provided exactly zero reason as to why God operates in such an absurdly-obvious unloving way. How are we supposed to believe you when you claim this analogy describes the truth? In your analogy, there is clearly an inevitable dichotomy in choice. But from God's perspective, he has much more option and room for compassion, love, understanding, and mercy. In fact, in a question you have yet to give an answer to, you even outline another of God's options:

Why could the condition not be, obey and I reward you, disobey and nothing happens at all[?]

Once again, your light/dark dichotomy is too narrow to hold the true possibilities for God. And once again, I ask, sincerely: why can't God go in between and allow people to happily choose independence from him, without "punishment"?

@karatemack

Do you understand them in their original context?

No, do you? If so, please enlighten us. Also please tell us why your translation is better and more accurate than the one commonly accepted. Note: "I need it for my argument" is not a valid justification, that would be back to front.

Hell is the result of rejection of God... it is not some arbitrary place God designed for people he dislikes.

But God made everything, right? Including Hell. Plus, He makes the rules.

The more powerful you are, the more responsibility you must take when bad things happen. If you're all-powerful, then you've really got a lot to answer for.

He could've just caused the people who didn't accept him pop out of existence in a completely humane way. That would've been a bit more moral, wouldn't it? Still not fair, but not the same as letting people be tortured for picking the wrong god.

You will probably be saying, "God has a different way of definition of morality to humankind", in which case why call his attributes things like, "morality", "love", "justice"?

Why not bundle them all up and say, "He's very Goddy".

The idea that God is love is true. But to understand what this means, you must define love the way the Bible does.
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Can God be both loving and just? Yes. But in the true sense of those words.

There is no true sense of words. Language is a convention, and I think you realise it since you've stated languages are changing. If the word "love" doesn't translate well the supposed Hebrew or Greek biblical equivalent, just translate it differently. Or are you trying to persuade us that all translations of the Bible are flawed? It seems to me that you are rather trying to keep using the word "love" with its emotional content and associated persuasive power while redefining its meaning to fit your doctrine. It's a typical sort of intellectually dishonest argument.

Sure there are different degrees by which a student can pass or fail... and there are good jobs and bad jobs... my point is that sometimes it is very possible to define things in black and white terms.

No doubt there are questions with yes/no answers, which is, probably, what you are trying to say by the black-and-white analogy. This is a trivial fact and you still have to demonstrate how this relates to the existence of hell. At most, I am ready to admit that you have shown us that it is very possible for God to create hell - but you are arguing that it is necessary for him to do so, aren't you?

If you think that some consequences are not everlasting results of our actions, then I ask you to explain how virginity can (in a real sense) be regained. How can a lie be untold? How can a murder be uncomitted? Or are you at least willing to admit that sometimes actions do cause irreversable consequences?

Strictly speaking no deed is reversible. Anything you do cannot be taken back. You can do a lot of things to compensate some of the unlucky effects but you can never return the state of things to the exact original state. Does it mean that infinite punishment is all right? I think you have a bit strange perception of justice.

And all your arguments are non sequitur.

I think my favorite answer is the one mentioned above where fire needs a physical body to torture and obviously a soul is immaterial so what difference would fire make? There are also many translations of Sheol (the grave) and Gehenna (a garbage dump) which do not support the accepted translations of hellfire and brimstone. Jehovah Witnesses, may the FSM bless their soul, actually have very sound arguments against the concept of hell.

I for one got tired of listening to men yelling from the pulpit and threatening me with eternal torture and then a few minutes later passing an offering plate around. It didnt take too much for me to put 2 and 2 together.

To answer the question which keeps coming up of 'how do you know your interpretation is correct'? Excellent question. Men have argued over the proper interpretation of LITERATURE (not just the Bible) for centuries. Personally I apply a historical-grammatical exegetical hermeneutic as it has proven the be the most reliable over all forms of literature. I won't lecture what this means as it would take far too long. But the method I use is the reason for my confidence in translation.

Use of words. I think I'm failing horribly to convey my meaning (obvious by your responses). I only mean to point out that you cannot say God has lied about Himself unless you properly understand what He has said about Himself.

I want to make sure I'm understanding the logic you state I'm missing.

1. The Bible states God is love.

2. A loving Being could not send people to an eternity in hell.

3. God sends people to hell.

4. Because God sends people to hell he cannot be loving.

If this is your logic, then I would suggest you are also holding to another logic.

1. Love is the primary concern when love is possessed.

2. Any being which puts any concern before love does not possess it.

Perhaps you're angry that God doesn't make love His primary concern. Certainly I believe God does love us, but I don't think that is God's primary concern. If it were, then I would (just as you) find it very hard to believe that anyone would go to hell.

Does this make God sadistic and self-absorbed? The question I mean to pose is not whether or not it is wrong to be self-absorbed but WHY is it wrong to be self-absorbed? God, being the ultimate being in the universe, is working out all things to His Glory. I believe that is God's primary concern. You will bring God glory despite any of your decisions (rejection or acceptance of Him). If God bringing glory to Himself is His primary concern and His love for you a secondary concern, then is God unfair to act in this way? I think not when you consider that God created us to worship (glorify) Him in the first place. He has allowed us to choose how we will glorify Him, either as He shows His infinate grace and forgiveness to us or as he justly judges and carries out punishment upon those who reject Him.

I am uncertain of the benefit of phobia extinction on the idea of hellfire. Just because it isn't a reasoned belief doesn't mean a person won't use reason to keep the phobia. (Or rather, rationalize keeping the phobia.)

One method I am optimistic about in breaking fear is to see the big picture. If hell is from the Bible, then the Bible's own words should work to dispel this fear some. I think the Bible has some things to say on love which contradict the doctrine of torturous hellfire:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

(1) It is unkind to torture and torment. (2) To infinitely punish simple disobedience is to be easily angered. (3) To put someone in hell for wrong acts committed in life is to keep a record of wrongs. (4) God should always protect. He should "save." But if He is the one He is saving people from, he is self-evidently an unloving god. (5) If God "always trusts, always hopes", and is merciful and forgiving, he would not give a final and irreversible judgment on a person's past, but always try to invest in that person's future. (6) If God decides for us to be tortured and tormented in hell, we can simply observe that His love, whatever it is, would not be persevering but rather dissolving.

I am well-aware that by just pointing out the unjust nature of torturous hell the irrational fear of hell is not extinguished. Irrational fear does not work on the basis of rationality. However, when we show the person of God to be conflicted on the nature of love and torturous hell (assuming the truth of the doctrine), it shows him to be a person who doesn't know what he's talking about. How can we take the threat of such a God seriously if he has lost his marbles when trying to explain the concept?

Didn't God send his son to die out of love for us? Why would he do that, and then turn around and torture us? The Bible says, "When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child" - does this sound like the doctrine of hell? I hope that train of thought can help people some. In fact, here are some more verses from the Bible:

Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. (1 John 4:8)

There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. (1 John 4:18)

Another consideration...

The "love" you are suggesting requires dictatorship. If I really LOVE my kids, I will NEVER let anything bad happen to them because I love them. If God knows that humans will go to hell unless they accept Him, He MUST force them to choose Him or He isn't love. What if God's will for us to have the ability to choose Him (which would bring greater honor to Him than would 'forcing' beings to choose Him) was His primary concern? For if God forced us to love Him, then we could never experience fully love itself as love is a conscious choice. Perhaps God's will was that we would be able to experience and understand His love for us, which would require that He allow some of us to reject Him if we chose to...

karatemack, you are equivocating. The problem we have been talking about is not that love is a "secondary" concern of God's. Rather, the problem is that hell is the antithesis to love. If hell does not contradict love, then neither do the ovens in the concentration camps, or the conspiracies of Satan himself, or any other equivalent evil imaginable.

Second, it doesn't matter what question you mean to pose. You ask, is self-absorption wrong? Or is the thirst for glory and ego a righteous urge? I won't respond to this question. But indifferent self-absorption contradicts love. The Bible indicates this: "it is not self-seeking, ..."

Once again you are equivocating, karatemack, shifting the blame and the subject of discussion elsewhere. We are not talking about free will. We are not talking about allowing us to choose him or not. What we are talking about is God's own choices. Your premise seems to be this:

If God knows that humans will go to hell unless they accept Him, ...

Hello? Why does God decide to make hell in the first place! Why would a loving parent, in preparation for a baby, build a torture chamber room to use on their future child? You have spectacularly failed to answer this conundrum.

The reason is plain: hell is absurd! The more people that know this, the better.

karatemack,

Perhaps God's will was that we would be able to experience and understand His love for us, which would require that He allow some of us to reject Him if we chose to...

You still haven't covered the following problems:

1) Why does God not make the choice more clear? After all, I don't 'reject' God. I'm not aware that there is a God to reject. Similarly, Hindus do not look at their options and conclude that even though Jesus is God they would prefer their own system of worship. They just aren't aware that Jesus is God.

It's true that parents who love their children also allow them to make their own decisions. But no parent who loved their children would withhold vital evidence relevant to their child's decisions if that evidence was in their power to give.

2) Why does God not allow us to choose to cease to exist when we die if we would prefer that to eternal torment?

Nobody would choose eternal torment, all other things being equal. I fail to understand how it is that you have convinced yourself that so many people do.

Brilliant deductions! There are some deep theological ideas in these readings and comments. I am impressed how far you have gotten in your thinking. I would guess your around 18 years old and trying to piece life together quickly because you have been overwhelmed with the task of understanding the entire universe around you. Some of you have probably "perfected" your belief sysetems, reaching a later age than the one previously mentioned and have taken a more mature approach to atheism. I am guessing you all have been unsatified with the answers given by your churches or by over-zealous evangelicals. Pertaining to the subject at hand; however, it is saddening to hear that you were ever scared into Christianity. I mean, if you have been forced all your life to believe in an faith driven by "ignorance", then it is human nature to rebel from such oppression! However, I must state that the core of Christianity is entirely much more sophisticated than "God is the answer." It is true, some do follow Christianity in an ignorant state, but they are simply not as methodic in their understanding as many of you are. However, don't be deceived into thinking that Christianity is 1 dimensional. For example: (and I will leave you with this); many Christians don't even believe hell exists. As in, when you die you don't go to hell, you simply don't enter the kingdom of heaven. You are annihilated from existence. You are nothing. Just something for you to chew on. By the way...who ever said that Christians who converted to atheism go to hell? The Bible says that once your saved, your always saved. As in, your experience with atheism is just a trial helping you grow in your theology. If you gain anything from my inherent ramblings, know this. There is more to God than the Bible, rational thought, and Church.
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Personally I apply a historical-grammatical exegetical hermeneutic...

Truly, you have a dizzying intellect!

I won't lecture what this means as it would take far too long.

Is this code for, "Trust me, I'm an intellectual"?

God, being the ultimate being in the universe, is working out all things to His Glory.

What exactly is His Glory and what sort of things would make him more or less glorious?

Actually, forget that question - please, please answer the ones above from Brad and Lynet, starting with why God chose to create Hell.

Personally I apply a historical-grammatical exegetical hermeneutic as it has proven the be the most reliable over all forms of literature. I won't lecture what this means as it would take far too long. But the method I use is the reason for my confidence in translation.

And your arrogance is dizzying, too, karatemack. If you knew how many people on this site know just what you're talking about and could probably explain it better than you, you'd get a lot more humble real quick. We don't need your lecture. What you should take away from the above arguments isn't that we don't understand what you're selling, but that we do understand and just aren't buying it.

The "I won't lecture about this" must have seemed very condescending. Well, it was taken that way because it is written that way. My apologies.

And yes, many of you are definately older than I am, and have a much more 'concrete' belief system than I. But I wonder if your age and experience automatically makes me wrong? If that is the case then I hope everyone reading this is voting for John McCain who is much older and more experienced than his opponent. Of course, if this argument doesn't hold up for the next leader of the free world, then I doubt I should give it much validity here. Truth is truth.

Why would God create hell? Perhaps I can give another illustration of what I believe. The Bible says God seperated the water and the land. Let's say that God occupies all the water. Let's say He chooses to be everywhere the water is, and no where else. Then to choose to be without God would only leave you with everything that's left.

I've already shown that black and white's do exist. Your main problem is still to cry that God isn't fair. How is it not fair to choose God and get all the blessings that go along with it, or reject God and get what's left?

If I choose to cheat on my wife and reject her as my wife, if she is any kind of woman she will no longer have sex with me despite her love for me. If she does then she is a sad slave to my will. But then I guess she's torturing me, for surely we could still have 'oral sex' or some in-between. She doesn't have to cut me off completely from the relationship does she? I would say she does unless she's again willing to become a slave to my personal will.

The question is really then if all good things dwell within God. Does the Bible teach that? James 1:17 says that every good and perfect gift is from above. So, the Bible teaches all good things come from God. ALL of them. So when you reject God, you simply get what's left. Again the idea is not "listen to me and get what you want" "reject me and I'll make sure you pay"... the idea IS "I want to have a relationship with you, choose me and you'll get all that goes along with that relationship, reject me and I'll certainly let you, but you'll get everything that exists apart from me."

What is dark? Is it not simply the absence of light? If it is something in and of itself then please send me a dark bulb.

By the way...who ever said that Christians who converted to atheism go to hell? The Bible says that once your saved, your always saved.

Now that's truly frightening, moreso than any "fire and brimstone" evangelist's description of the torments of hell. Are you saying that, because we were subjected to indoctrination as children, even though we have gotten over it, you think we'll have to spend eternity in the company of smug bible-thumpers and their mindless followers? Ugh, I'd rather have the brimstone, please.

Truth is truth.

You need to read Richard Rorty.

karatemack,

What is dark? Is it not simply the absence of light? If it is something in and of itself then please send me a dark bulb.

In our context, is this to be understood that torture is simply the same thing as the absence of love?

Is self-inflicted pain torture?

Your main problem is still to cry that God isn't fair.

Actually, no. We don't believe in a God who's fair or a God who's unfair. What we have is a sneaking suspicion that a god of the magnitude of the Christian God, if he existed, wouldn't feel he had to prove anything to anybody.

The only reason any being reacts violently is that it feels threatened. The reason people say God would react that way is only that they react that way and assume any being--including God--would. But an invulnerable being would never have the need.

Here's a thought experiment I tried. I asked myself: If I had some kind of super-advanced belt I could put around my waist that would make me invulnerable to any known power in the Cosmos and would make me as strong as Superman, how would I act? Would I become angry when some person threatened me? Would I retaliate, despite the fact I was never in any danger at all?

In fact, I probably would be angry. I hope I would exercise self-restraint in retaliating, but the temptation would probably be there. That bothered me. If I--who in a very real sense had become a god--would react that way, how could I then revolt against the notion of the God of the Bible doing the same?

Then it hit me. The reason I would react as a man despite having become a god was that I would still, at heart, be a man. I grew up human. More importantly, I'm the result of a long line of evolution that has instilled into me the "fight or flight" response instinct. You see, nature never suspected I would someday be a god. It equipped me like a frail, vulnerable creature that might have to defend itself to survive. Just becoming invulnerable and immensely powerful later on wouldn't change my basic nature. I would still react as a man.

But what about God, who, presumably, has always been a god; who has never had any need to develop these reactive instincts? Why would he respond like a man? Isn't the likeliest answer that he has been designed by men, who modeled him after themselves, to include both their virtues and vices amplified astronomically?

We're calling it like we see it, karatemack. We simply wouldn't expect God--any real god--to ever be so bothered by any human deed that he would impose limitless punishment in retaliation. What we see represented in the Bible is a man with an invincibility belt--somebody portrayed as all-powerful, but still subject to falling into all-too-human snits. No matter what kind of light you try to shine onto him, no matter what lens you hold up to our eyes, that's what we see. To us, this guy doesn't make a very convincing god.

karatemack,

The "I won't lecture about this" must have seemed very condescending. Well, it was taken that way because it is written that way. My apologies.

Considering that you can't understand our arguments, it's pretty bad form for you to be condescending (hubris anyone?)

But I wonder if your age and experience automatically makes me wrong?

No, it's your bad arguments, question dodging, and inability to engage in what we are saying that make you wrong.

Why would God create hell? Perhaps I can give another illustration of what I believe. The Bible says God seperated the water and the land. Let's say that God occupies all the water. Let's say He chooses to be everywhere the water is, and no where else. Then to choose to be without God would only leave you with everything that's left.

And this does nothing to answer the question of why god would do this.

I've already shown that black and white's do exist.

No one has disputed that black and white situations do exist. What we asked was why god would create such a situation in regards to heaven/hell. This, you have utterly failed to address.

God, being the ultimate being in the universe, is working out all things to His Glory. I believe that is God's primary concern. You will bring God glory despite any of your decisions (rejection or acceptance of Him). If God bringing glory to Himself is His primary concern and His love for you a secondary concern, then is God unfair to act in this way?

Yes. It is unfair for god to create us simply to glorify himself. It's petty, cruel, and immoral. If god is glorified by sending us to hell, then god is a monster.

Why would a perfect being need us to glorify him anyway? Didn't god already have maximal, infinite glory by virtue of being perfect?

Is self-inflicted pain torture?

No, it isn't. You haven't still answered any of the question you have been asked, so I would suggest you to try responding to few of them before asking your own ones.

Especially it is still not clear to me whether you really think that the only logically possible alternative to "personal relation with God" (whatever it means) is an infinitely long horrible pain. I am not at all concerned whether the pain can be interpreted as self-inflicted or not.

karatemack,

The "love" you are suggesting requires dictatorship. If I really LOVE my kids, I will NEVER let anything bad happen to them because I love them.

Pretty bad analogy. A good parent lets their children make their own mistakes and suffer the consequences (and only when sure that the child can safely handle those consequences) so they can learn from those mistakes. In what sense does being sent to hell allow me to learn or grow as a person? I am stuck in hell forever, permanently, irreversibly. The opportunity for self-improvement is over. After I have "learned my lesson", I'm still kept in perpetual misery. A parent who never lets their child forget its mistakes is a terrible parent (not to mention a complete jackass).

The only purpose infinite punishment can serve is to induce terror (before it happens) and inflict wrath (while it is happens).

To further the problems with the parent analogy, if a child asked to learn to swim and the parent had foreknowledge that the child would drown if the parent allowed it, should the parent allow the child to drown and die so that it will learn its lesson? Of course not. If god knew ahead of time that people would go to hell and suffer for eternity, should god have created those people? Of course not.

If God bringing glory to Himself is His primary concern and His love for you a secondary concern, then is God unfair to act in this way?

We'd never accept such self-aggrandizement at the expense of others from a mere mortal. So, what is the basis for your special pleading for god to act in a way that we'd never tolerate from mere humans? Being the "ultimate being" doesn't clarify this at all.

And speaking of Hell and glory, quite clearly, there are a great number of beings for whom the idea of Hell only detracts from his glory.

What is "glory" and what is the source of "glory", anyway? It can't be from god himself since he needs to introduce third parties (at HUMONGOUS cost) in order to obtain it. That also indicates to me that he's not self-sufficient.

whattheduece,

I would guess your around 18 years old and trying to piece life together quickly because you have been overwhelmed with the task of understanding the entire universe around you. Some of you have probably "perfected" your belief sysetems, reaching a later age than the one previously mentioned and have taken a more mature approach to atheism.

How very charitable you are in your condescension.

I am guessing you all have been unsatified with the answers given by your churches or by over-zealous evangelicals.

That and the logical impossibilities of the conceptions of god.

I mean, if you have been forced all your life to believe in an faith driven by "ignorance", then it is human nature to rebel from such oppression!

Considering that theistic belief in inherently irrational, I fail to see how anyone could not come to faith through ignorance.

However, I must state that the core of Christianity is entirely much more sophisticated than "God is the answer." It is true, some do follow Christianity in an ignorant state, but they are simply not as methodic in their understanding as many of you are. However, don't be deceived into thinking that Christianity is 1 dimensional. For example: (and I will leave you with this); many Christians don't even believe hell exists.

If it is not 1-dimensional, then please tell us how it isn't. And, most Xians do believe in hell, although some do not. Big deal.

By the way...who ever said that Christians who converted to atheism go to hell?

Why the Bible says so, it's the only blasphemy that can't be undone (i.e. denying the holy spirit).

As in, your experience with atheism is just a trial helping you grow in your theology.

Wishful thinking I presume.

If you gain anything from my inherent ramblings, know this. There is more to God than the Bible, rational thought, and Church.

Considering that rational thought is ruled out by faith, your sentence is mostly gibberish here, unless you are admitting that god is "beyond rational thought" as some Xians do (i.e. that you can't rationally believe in god). Either way, I certainly didn't gain anything from your ramblings.

To OMGF:

It's not suprising you accuse me of not responding to you. It is a common defense in argument for people to state their opponent has 'dodged' a question or 'failed' to answer a question. In fact it is you who have failed to answer any of the points I've raised. You continue to raise straw men, then destroy the non-existant arguments which no one has raised other than yourself.

The answer is that there is no good apart from God. You cannot seperate yourself from God and experience anything good.

"Yes. It is unfair for god to create us simply to glorify himself. It's petty, cruel, and immoral. If god is glorified by sending us to hell, then god is a monster."

You also begin with the false premise that the same moral code applies to both a superior being and an inferior being. We understand this concept to be false and lacking any support in the real world. It is morally alright for parents to subjegate their children to certain rules and restrictions they understand to be for their child's own good. However it is not acceptable that a child would try to gain this same type of control over the parent. The relationship between parent and child suggests certain differences of role which dictate different moral responsibilities for each party involved. A parent is required and expected to provide for the child, and yet the child is not expected to fulfill this same role in the relationship. There are differences in a relationship based up on your role. If there are distinctions between parent and child, how much greater a distinction we should expect between God and mankind.

Prase:

"No, it isn't. You haven't still answered any of the question you have been asked, so I would suggest you to try responding to few of them before asking your own ones."

Your question was based upon a false premise, which you have here admitted. That is why your questions did not receive an answer, but a question.

@whatthedeuce

I must state that the core of Christianity is entirely much more sophisticated than "God is the answer."

Every version of Christianity and Christian theology reduces to "God is the answer." That's as true for Pat Robertson and Fred Phelps as it is for Alvin Plantinga and John Shelby Spong.

You're welcome to substantively refute this. I'll cross my fingers but I won't hold my breath.

The answer is that there is no good apart from God. You cannot seperate yourself from God and experience anything good.

Yes, we get that. But saying "there is no good apart from God" is not the same as saying "If you separate yourself from God, you get eternal suffering and agony." What about "If you separate yourself from God, you get nothingness (i.e., you just cease to exist)", as has been suggested several times already? That is also consistent with "no good apart from God", and also more in line with his supposed love for us. Why is the eternal torment part necessary?

You also begin with the false premise that the same moral code applies to both a superior being and an inferior being.

Be careful, it sounds like you're agreeing with us. It sounds like you're admitting that if we judge God by our own human standards of morality, we can only conclude that he is an immoral monster. If this is not the case, then by which standards should we judge a hypothetical God? It is not enough (at least for me) to just say "God's methods are not for us inferior beings to judge." Then how could we tell the difference between a benevolent God and a malevolent God? When I hear about a God who creates flawed creatures and then allows them to suffer for eternity because of their flaws, my logical inference is that he must be either malevolent or at best indifferent.

When I hear about a God who creates flawed creatures and then allows them to suffer for eternity because of their flaws, my logical inference is that he must be either malevolent or at best indifferent.

Eurythro Dilemma, meet karatemack. karatemack: put some ice on that and the mark will fade eventually.

To some of the above commenters here: let's try and not make this personal.

Anyway, karatemack,

How is it not fair to choose God and get all the blessings that go along with it, or reject God and get what's left?

I will answer this question. This is unfair because "what's left" is all still God's perfect design: torture that is instigated and made by God. The Bible calls hell "the eternal fire that has been prepared for the devil and his angels." And of course, God feels the need to cast little us into the lake of fire to burn eternally. This is all in God's full knowledge that he could just leave us alone in independent existence instead of torturing us. Or is not receiving infinite torture the equivalent of a privilage under God? So, a third time, I ask sincerely: why can't God go in between and allow people to happily choose independence from him, without "punishment"? You have merely asked rhetorical questions about fairness, and "illustrated" what your "black and white" belief means, but you have not answered my question.

Also, there needs to be informed consent in choice to make it fair. Ebonmuse's Argument from Locality, coupled with the facts I gave about how the human mind is set up for failure, shows how the type of "choice" we collectively have in this matter is a very ugly one, and unfair.

However, if you reject these Bible verses, and instead believe that hellfire is completely "self-inflicted," then you still have to back that belief up. Your claim, in conjunction with the Bible, implies that most people on Earth would hurt themselves if they were separated from God. Given that the average joe lives practically as a secular in this world, I don't see why self-inflicted torment in the afterlife without God would be probable. You also have to explain why this torment would be eternal. I note that people often change their minds on Earth, especially when new information comes to light, so wouldn't it be very probable that people would accept God if they were given explicity, irrefutable proof He exists after death? And if they had time to mull it over, I would expect most people would turn to him sometime in the course of an infinity. In the end, this is where your cheat-on-wife analogy fails. You can apologize to your wife and be sincerely sorry to her any time. But God turns you away, for eternity, without any more mercy, compassion, forgiveness, understanding, or love.

Also, your attempt at moral relativism fails. You can label any person as un-empathetic and hateful, or gracious and loving, without caring about what they personally label themselves. Hitler could slap the word "loving person" on himself and just because he's powerful it wouldn't make it correct.

If there are distinctions between parent and child, how much greater a distinction we should expect between God and mankind.

Indeed, that is my impression from the Bible and reality.

karatemack,

It's not suprising you accuse me of not responding to you.

Once again you make straw of what I said. What I said was that you were not answering questions - I did not state they were mine. Since everyone else is also saying that you haven't answered some direct questions aimed at you, you might want to get the hint (and you kind of even admit that you aren't answering them).

It is a common defense in argument for people to state their opponent has 'dodged' a question or 'failed' to answer a question. In fact it is you who have failed to answer any of the points I've raised.

What points have I failed to answer?

You continue to raise straw men, then destroy the non-existant arguments which no one has raised other than yourself.

What strawmen have I raised? And, might I add that this is particularly ironic from someone who starts talking about the existence of black and white situations and claims that this somehow knocks down the argument against god needlessly creating such situations. The only straw I see flying about is coming from you.

The answer is that there is no good apart from God. You cannot seperate yourself from God and experience anything good.

The answer to what?

And, I fail to see how this would get god off the hook for anything. god has still set up a system where there is a black and white outcome of either heaven or hell - something you have yet to address. Also, god has a moral responsibility to us because he created us. He has the obligation to treat us in a moral fashion. Putting two doors in front of us and saying, "Choose," and letting those who choose erroneously to suffer in torment for eternity is not a moral position. This is especially problematic when god is not asking us to choose to be moral or not, but to choose whether we can interpret the fact of his existence correctly or not (i.e. whether god exists or not). This is an arbitrary and capricious way for god to decided who gets into heaven and who doesn't.

This is further problematic when one considers a couple things. First, god says clearly that he grants mercy on those he will grant mercy upon and that we are all destined for hell unless god grants us mercy. This clearly denotes that we don't actually have a choice in the matter, and that god will put us into hell unless he arbitrarily decides to save us. Second, free will is inherently impossible with an omni-max deity, so there's no way for us to decide to go to heaven or hell anyway.

You also begin with the false premise that the same moral code applies to both a superior being and an inferior being.

You should take that up with your fellow Xians then who claim that morality is absolute and not relative. However, I see no reason to give god a pass for acting immorally simply because he is god.

We understand this concept to be false and lacking any support in the real world. It is morally alright for parents to subjegate their children to certain rules and restrictions they understand to be for their child's own good. However it is not acceptable that a child would try to gain this same type of control over the parent.

We find that the parent acts in certain ways to protect the child because the parent has a moral obligation to the child! If the child had knowledge that the parent didn't - knowledge that would protect the parent from some danger or harm - and wished to share it with the parent, then it would NOT be immoral for the child to speak up. Morality isn't about control. Parents don't morally control their children. They teach their children to be moral agents and try to keep their children from coming to harm. This notion of morality equals control that you seem to be saying may be part of the problem in your inability to see how god can be an immoral being.

A parent is required and expected to provide for the child, and yet the child is not expected to fulfill this same role in the relationship.

Again, it is because the parent has assumed a moral obligation to the child by virtue of bringing the child into the world and because the parent should have more knowledge and cognitive ability. I fail to see how this gets your god off the hook.

If there are distinctions between parent and child, how much greater a distinction we should expect between God and mankind.

It doesn't matter how great the distinction between god and mankind, sending people to hell is immoral and unjust. Things that are immoral in every situation that we can imagine do not simply become moral because god does them.

Your question was based upon a false premise, which you have here admitted.

Not to speak for Prase, but I don't see where he admitted anything of the sort. Please show us all where this happened.

The answer is that there is no good apart from God. You cannot seperate yourself from God and experience anything good.

Perhaps I have not satisfactorily responded to this claim. First, how can anyone even exist independently without God? Where do you exist? Second, if self-torture is the only thing that can come without God, that means everything that is "good" is directly of God. The decision to do good things, including choosing God, would be itself something "good." Therefore our good decisions exist only because of God's choosing. And thus, it makes no sense to say we have free will if our good choices are mandated by God and that he will punish us for not choosing him.

Either humans have the power for good themselves, and do not torture themselves in hell, or we have no free will at all.

...or we have no free will at all.

http://www.ebonmusings.org/atheism/divineblackmail.html

karatemack,

I'll concede the coherency of the idea that in creating hell, God simply created a place where he wasn't. I'll also concede the coherency of a (hypothetical) God allowing human beings to choose to go to the place where he wasn't. However, that hypothetical situation is not identical to saying, in this world, that "if you don't believe in God you'll go to hell".

This thread is enough of a mess that you can be forgiven for not answering either of my questions. You probably didn't see them. They've been asked by others, though, and as far as I can see, even given my concessions above, your argument is still vulnerable to both of them.

Lynet:

To be fair, I haven't responded to your questions. For the sake of this forum I don't think I will.

Someone suggested at one point that my comments would be more appriate on my own blog. I don't know that that will actually happen, however you all have motivated me to pick up some fresh books on apologetics.

This conversation certainly has been interesting, and I appreciate all the references given so I can look further into these topics as I seek to broaden my own understanding.

karatemack,

Awesome work in explaining your position.

God bless,

Adam

Lynet,

I'll concede the coherency of the idea that in creating hell, God simply created a place where he wasn't. I'll also concede the coherency of a (hypothetical) God allowing human beings to choose to go to the place where he wasn't. However, that hypothetical situation is not identical to saying, in this world, that "if you don't believe in God you'll go to hell".

This is a fantastic comment.

TO EVERYONE ELSE...This post is only for those who already have said, as Lynet did:I'll concede the coherency of the idea that in creating hell, God simply created a place where he wasn't. I'll also concede the coherency of a (hypothetical) God allowing human beings to choose to go to the place where he wasn't. If you have not already conceded this, then I understand that you'll have huge problems with what I am going to post!

Lynet,

If you're interested. I think, to your surprise, that the Cathecism of the Catholic Church might help answer your questions of: "that 'if you don't believe in God you'll go to hell'".

Here is the link to the part of the CCC that I think you would want to read: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p123a12.htm#1035

Starts with the THE PARTICULAR JUDGMENT, paragraph 1021 and read on...skip the puragtory part if you want, then read on. (see the references at the bottom as well)

You might also be interested in Mortal and Venial sin: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p3s1c1a8.htm#1861

start with paragraph, 1854

1860 is key to answering your question!, I'll post it here:

Unintentional ignorance can diminish or even remove the imputability of a grave offense. But no one is deemed to be ignorant of the principles of the moral law, which are written in the conscience of every man. The promptings of feelings and passions can also diminish the voluntary and free character of the offense, as can external pressures or pathological disorders. Sin committed through malice, by deliberate choice of evil, is the gravest.

Directly related to your question is CCC, 597: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p122a4p2.htm#597

I hope this helps a bit.

You're reading way too much into Lynet's "concession," I think, Adam. There's nothing there that concedes the rightness of the notion of Hell, only that the doctrine can be constructed such that it's internally consistent. When I write a novel I make it internally consistent. That doesn't mean it's not pure fiction. It's still incumbent on you and karatemack to show that Hell exists in reality. (Or, for that matter, in morality.) You haven't come close to doing that.

I really don't think you'll surprise Lynet, Adam. What you linked to is 100%-filled with pure assertions, and no support. So it won't "help" answer his question.

Plus, the points raised in this discussion about the ontology of hell (how does evil exist without God's supporting it? Magic?), the infinitude of hell (Why can't people change their minds? It seems probable they would, after eternity. Why would God not allow come-backs, if he is loving, forgiving, merciful, and gracious?), and the informed consent involved (Locality and our programmed-fallible minds).

These points, plus the Bible's own definition of love that I outlined above, make the Bible's notion of hell incompatible with a loving God. In this sense, I can confidently say that I don't see the doctrine of hell to be coherent.

OT - @ heliobates:

Rorty? Really? Eww. I wouldn't suggest him to karatemack at all. Rorty is the epitome of mental masturbation.

There are far better philosophers, like Cavell, Leiter, or more "classic" philosophers like Hume, Nietzsche, or Quine.I also highly recommend Baron d'holbach, Vincet d'Onfray, and Christopher Hitchens.

Adam,

It would be a lot easier for me to know what your argument actually is if you put the reasoning in explicitly. I have difficulty constructing a sensible argument out of the long list of passages you have indicated for the following reasons.

Firstly, most of them assume boldly and without explanation that faith in God is the only thing that God could possibly accept as a reason to forgive people.

Secondly, it seems to be assumed boldly and without explanation that eternal punishment is a sensible and natural consequence to certain kinds of misdeed, whereas it seems fairly obvious to me that eternal punishment is not a just consequence to any misdeed.

Even if I granted the first of these (and I see no reason to), it just takes me back to my first question to karatemack. Since knowing, or at least believing, that God exists is a necessary prerequisite to having faith in God (I use 'faith' in the sense approximate to 'trust', here), why does God not make his existence more clear?

Moreover, given that eternal punishment is not a just consequence of anything, there is still nothing to prevent a just God from allowing sinners to choose to cease to exist rather then experiencing eternal torment. So my second question has not been answered, either.

Unintentional ignorance can diminish or even remove the imputability of a grave offense. But no one is deemed to be ignorant of the principles of the moral law, which are written in the conscience of every man.

I wasn't talking about ignorance of moral law. I have strong feelings about morality, even though I'd describe it relative to the welfare of human beings rather than to any law set down by God. I was talking about ignorance of the existence of (or nature of) God, which would prevent those who would otherwise ask for forgiveness from doing so in the 'approved' fashion. If you think that all human beings know that in their hearts, you're ignoring the evidence provided by the vast variety of sincerely held religious beliefs in the world.

@ Matt Wilder

Rorty is the epitome of mental masturbation.

Well, there's no accounting for taste, I guess. But I find a statement like this:

Truth cannot be out there—cannot exist independently of the human mind—because sentences cannot so exist, or be out there. The world is out there, but descriptions of the world are not. Only descriptions of the world can be true or false. The world on its own—unaided by the describing activities of humans—cannot.

...to be perfectly sensible and germane to my discussion.

Heliobates,

Truth cannot be out there—cannot exist independently of the human mind—because sentences cannot so exist, or be out there. The world is out there, but descriptions of the world are not. Only descriptions of the world can be true or false. The world on its own—unaided by the describing activities of humans—cannot.

I've been essentially saying the same thing all the time I've been here: fact may exist independent of us, but "truth" is just a construct of the mind - a human interpretation of fact!

It seems that when I say it, no one takes me seriously - but when that Rorty fellow says the same thing all of a sudden it's worth noting.

It seems that when I say it, no one takes me seriously - but when that Rorty fellow says the same thing all of a sudden it's worth noting.

I've always taken that aspect of your postings seriously, Christopher. Sorry if I've never given you props for that, but you---how should I put this?---didn't seem like the type that needed them.

Then again, get tenure at an ivy league university, pull the rug out from under the feet of Anglophone analytic philosophy and get yourself into a debate with Pascal Engel and you'll get all the props you could ask for.

;o)

I gave up on religion 15 years ago when I was 22 years old. When I did I had never heard of atheism, nor did I know anyone that vocally spoke out against god. I just knew none of it made any sense. I spent the first year, so depressed and angry I didn't want to live, But to scared that I could be wrong to die. I am sure there was not a day in the first year that I did not think of god, hell, and what if I am wrong.
This is how I over came my fear.
I decided that If there really was a god and he could not accept that I could not associate myself with such hypocrisy, then I would rather go to hell than be associated with him. I resigned myself to this fact.
I then decided that what I really wanted was just to be happy. I decided that to do this then I needed to live the best life I could. All I could offer god (if he existed) was to live my best and if this was not good enough to hell with him anyways.
All I wanted was the best for me, and the best for all of those concerned.
This has become the core belief for my life.
I resolved that I will live my life doing my impeccable best. This did not mean I decided to become an over achiever, But that I would be responsible for me, my life, my actions, my survival, and that I would refuse to be held responsible for the lives of others. (Hell, I could barely hold my own life together, I had no right to try to be responsible for others.) This part was the hardest, I was taught the need for self sacrifice.
I learned that the only way to be able to give your best to your fellow man was to give your best to yourself first, not the other way around as religion teaches. You can only really help others when your healthy and strong. The best help you can give others is to let others learn to accept responsibility for their own lives, so they can become healthy and strong too.

It took years of coming back to the core, that to be healthy and happy I am responsible for me, and I all I can do is my impeccable best.

I also learned how to deal with guilt. We all know that if you've learned to be a christian, you learned to be guilty. I learned feelings of guilt are only feelings of violating a belief. I learned to observe my feelings and determine if the guilt was from my religious training or a violation of what I believe now. If I found that these feelings manifested themselves from my religion I would ponder on what it is I really believe, once this was established I found the feelings of guilt and fear would dissolve, and I could proceed acting according to what I now believe guilt and fear free.

Now when confronted with the question; "what if your wrong?" I can say, I have done my best to live my life doing my impeccable best, if that is not enough, to hell with him anyways.

Now 18 years later I have stood back from religion long enough to see what a horrible lie it really is. How it is only there to suck your energy from you and to leave you an empty shell, sick, dependent, and desperate for approval.
It is good to be free and it is even better to know I am not alone.

Lynet,

Allow me to try and be more clear.

I'm am trying to explain why this statement: "that 'if you don't believe in God you'll go to hell'". Is not true...given some conditions:

Allow me to pick the passages that are most relevant, but let me say that if you read all of the passages, you'll get a better understanding about why the statement is false.

First of all, one must define grave matter, and sin: http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p3s1c1a8.htm#1854

CCC 1854 Sins are rightly evaluated according to their gravity.

CCC 1857 For a sin to be mortal, three conditions must together be met: "Mortal sin is sin whose object is grave matter and which is also committed with full knowledge and deliberate consent."131

***This should answer your question right here. One can not go to hell for not believing in God without full knowledge and deliberate consent of their actions***

Let me go on though.

CCC 1037 God predestines no one to go to hell; for this, a willful turning away from God (a mortal sin) is necessary, and persistence in it until the end.

And, just as the Jews can not be blamed for killing Jesus, the son of God, because of "ignorance", so to can man not be blamed for not believing in God (given that the conditions for a mortal sin, as defined, are not met).

see CCC 597
http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p122a4p2.htm#597

Again, if you read it all, I think you'll understand the points I have made even more clearly.

Therefore, if you concede this:

I'll concede the coherency of the idea that in creating hell, God simply created a place where he wasn't. I'll also concede the coherency of a (hypothetical) God allowing human beings to choose to go to the place where he wasn't.

Then according to the Catholic Church and it's teaching on mortal sin, one can not believe in God, and still not go to hell.

karatemack,

To be fair, I haven't responded to your questions. For the sake of this forum I don't think I will.

Oh, so now you admit that you haven't answered the questions that you claimed you did, and instead of actually answering them you're going to take your bat and ball and go home. Nice. Well, I'm going to assume it's because you don't have an answer for those questions if that's all right with you.

Adam,

***This should answer your question right here. One can not go to hell for not believing in God without full knowledge and deliberate consent of their actions***

So, you are now saying that no one goes to hell? Cool. Unfortunately that is not in line with what the Bible says, but hey, whatever.

Adam,

Thanks for the clarification. It's nice that Catholicism does not necessarily teach that all who do not believe in God will go to hell. Mind you, I suspect that there are enough mortal sins out there that we've all committed one of them at least once, so I'm not sure how big a difference it makes.

I still think the idea that anyone should go to hell is kind of wrong, but thank you for the information.

Thanks for the clarification.

You're welcome

Mind you, I suspect that there are enough mortal sins out there that we've all committed one of them at least once, so I'm not sure how big a difference it makes.

You're right, we all sin. But we all have another chance...many chances for that matter..As a catholic I have confession, for non-catholics if one admits they are sinful and repents of their sin, God's mercy saves.

So, you are now saying that no one goes to hell? Cool. Unfortunately that is not in line with what the Bible says, but hey, whatever.

I appriciate your fervor on this sight, but that is not w